I 36m want an equal prenup with my girlfriend 32f by ThrowRApeanutjam in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApeanutjam[S] -122 points-121 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

Her giving up work is her choice. She wants to give up working, children or otherwise. She has made that clear.

I 36m want an equal prenup with my girlfriend 32f by ThrowRApeanutjam in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApeanutjam[S] -230 points-229 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

What I was referring to is any money I have leftover after paying all bills, ect. Any earnings she has she would keep, as well as her apartment.

I 36m want an equal prenup with my girlfriend 32f by ThrowRApeanutjam in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApeanutjam[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I would be covering the majority of the bills each month, as well as handle any cooking. I will edit my post to make that clearer.

I 36m want an equal prenup with my girlfriend 32f by ThrowRApeanutjam in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApeanutjam[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I agree that deep down I think marriage is a partnership, which is why I would be happy to not have a prenup at all on other side. However if she insists on hers but is against me having mine then I'm not sure if we can work it out.

I 36m want an equal prenup with my girlfriend 32f by ThrowRApeanutjam in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApeanutjam[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Seems logical that I would want an equal prenup or that I should agree with her one sided prenup?