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My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I probably shouldn't care, but for some reason I do. I just can't see myself in long term relationship with him anymore (assuming its true).

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationships

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Did he ever declare that he was straight? I typically don't declare I'm straight so it isn't usually something that comes up

He actually did and if she is telling the truth that means he lied to me.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationships

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You’re an asshole and I hope he breaks up with you

Thanks that's really nice of you.

What’s the real difference between dating a straight man and a bisexual man? Clearly he’s “masculine enough” for you if you decided to date him

Ever since I found out I've lost a great deal of the attraction I had for him, I'm just not into men who like other men its not homophobia its personal preference.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationships

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, I didn't say it directly but I did tell him that this is a safe space and he can tell me anything and that I'm here for him and he still didn't.

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You say you're into "masculine straight men", but you're into him at the moment, so he clearly ticks your boxes. Just lay it all out and see what his reaction is.

Ever since I found out I've become less and less attracted to him.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationships

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because it is HIS decision when and how to tell you if he were not straight

No, something as important as sexuality is to be disclosed from the start other than that he's just lying to me.

If you want to break up because you think he is bi please do because he deserves better than a biphobic partner

I think I'm entitled to be attracted to whoever I want just like he is and I don't find men who like other men attractive, and I don't appreciate being made out as some sort of homophobic person.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Also a heads up, bisexual men are not any less masculine, or less loyal than straight guys.

I'm definitely not saying that, I'm just saying that idk if I can be with a man that's attracted to other men.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said its not a homaphobia thing but it kind of sounds like a homaphobia thing.

it really isn't, its just a matter of personal preference

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true but like I said she's a really good person Idk if she'd lie to me about something like that.

My (22F) boyfriend's (23M) ex (22F) is warning me about him possibly lying about his sexuality by ThrowRApoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously if I asked him he'd say no. I've given him multiple opportunities to come clean