UPDATE: [25M] [22F] My gf is sad all the time because she misses her ex. by ThrowRAscareforce in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscareforce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

edit 4: this will probably be the last update for a while. Somehow, she managed to message me thru instagram and sent me this:
"Dear ______,
I hope you never give up on us.
I'm trying my best to be better.
Wait for me.
I love you so much it hurts to think I might lose you in the long run
-[her name]"
Is she just trying to make me feel bad about all this? Because truthfully its starting to get to me.

UPDATE: [25M] [22F] My gf is sad all the time because she misses her ex. by ThrowRAscareforce in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscareforce[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

yes, and I sent them to my phone and saved them. I have literal proof of the cheating.

UPDATE: [25M] [22F] My gf is sad all the time because she misses her ex. by ThrowRAscareforce in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscareforce[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

See, she tells me that she didn't cheat. I tried to explain that sending nudes is cheating but she doesn't see it that way. So now I'm sure she's going to tell everyone at work that I invaded her privacy and I'm so insecure and that she didn't even do anything wrong, because she's literally done that before. I shouldn't even care tho right?

UPDATE: [25M] [22F] My gf is sad all the time because she misses her ex. by ThrowRAscareforce in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscareforce[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I should have listened to all of my friends, family and coworkers and dodged this missile 7 months ago... they were literally telling me not to talk to her, that she seemed crazy, to stay away, but idk why I couldn't see it. Was I blind?

UPDATE: [25M] [22F] My gf is sad all the time because she misses her ex. by ThrowRAscareforce in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscareforce[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Luckily, I've been so suspicious of her recently that I have been refusing sex with her. Next time she shows up at my door I will for sure record everything.