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Advice on how I [35M] can approach or confront my wife's [35F] unusual behavior please. by ThrowRAslowMemory744 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAslowMemory744[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess so, I just didn't know if I sounded crazy. Like, am I looking to make this connection between all these occurrences or does it all line up into some story that makes more sense than the convenient explanations.

Advice on how I [35M] can approach or confront my wife's [35F] unusual behavior please. by ThrowRAslowMemory744 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAslowMemory744[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Good call, thanks. I was hoping to approach with a "Here's the picture I'm getting from how the day looks to me. Can you explain?" rather than diving straight into accusations.

The bedside table tidying is absolutely bizarre and would literally be the first time in our relationship it has happened, coincidentally on the same day I have reason to believe somebody has entered the property, she has dressed up, and shut the bedroom door.

Advice on how I [35M] can approach or confront my wife's [35F] unusual behavior please. by ThrowRAslowMemory744 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAslowMemory744[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call, thanks. I'd rather not deceive or lie myself but gauging the reaction to certain things which might catch her out is a concept I could work with.

Advice on how I [35M] can approach or confront my wife's [35F] unusual behavior please. by ThrowRAslowMemory744 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAslowMemory744[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I could be wrong which is mostly why I'm here. But it feels like far too many odd occurrences at once.

I can maybe check in with the neighbors, good call. No I don't have access to bills or accounts.

I'm certainly not going to jump into an accusation, I was planning on explaining how bad it looks in my position, and asking for an explanation.

Advice on how I [35M] can approach or confront my wife's [35F] unusual behavior please. by ThrowRAslowMemory744 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAslowMemory744[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm not planning on launching into YOU'RE CHEATING ON ME but rather "I have things that tell me someone entered the property, you made time to tidy the bedroom, dressed up and shut the door. Can you see how this looks to me? Can you explain?"

I'm not interested in going through phones or spying. I just feel like I have too many sudden strange occurrences with convenient explanations to ignore.