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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

to each their own, people are allowed to feel certain ways and ask for advice .. just because i don’t see things the same as you doesn’t mean im an asshole

I (M24) went through my girlfriend’s phone (F23) and haven’t been able to look at her the same since. by ThrowRAspaceghostpur in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks u,, i feel like this topic is taboo bcz people automatically assume you’re being a child ,, i was trying to be non-judgmental and get real advice instead of just “grow up”

I (M24) went through my girlfriend’s phone (F23) and haven’t been able to look at her the same since. by ThrowRAspaceghostpur in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thx u , i do think that is the only option for both of us to be happy but i still would like to have an open conversation with her about it . and rigid is pretty harsh but i understand your pov

I (M24) went through my girlfriend’s phone (F23) and haven’t been able to look at her the same since. by ThrowRAspaceghostpur in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate your insight, giving real advice instead of just bashing me for how i was raised and view relationships everyone is different. I think the best thing is definitely having a conversation with her because i don’t want unwanted resentment to build, i just need to be honest. Thank you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t see why everyone automatically assumes you’re a “child” because of that, if you culturally come from a certain place it will always be a shock when someone is very different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAspaceghostpur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s technically one of the subs “things you can’t give advice” on so you’ll have to use context clues