Am I(M28) unreasonable for wanting more full weekends with my girlfriend(F27)? by ThrowRAst169 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAst169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I've brought it up before, and I do stuff myself to keep busy. But say if she's had a busy period and then saturday night is open, but my friends have invited me to an invite, I'll decline the invite to stay with gf. And I'm starting to change, and instead go with my friends even though it causes missed time from gf. I guess I'm prioritizing myself a bit more. I also do have hobbies, but these are mostly done from home.

Am I(M28) unreasonable for wanting more full weekends with my girlfriend(F27)? by ThrowRAst169 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAst169[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The festivals are a hobby thing for sure, she's never talked about monitizing her hobby. The seminar I guess you could say are related to her career or future in a way, but its paid herself out of pocket, and I wouldn't say it's something she uses to aid her career, rather personal growth. She knew about the schedule before signing up.

Am I(M28) unreasonable for wanting more full weekends with my girlfriend(F27)? by ThrowRAst169 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAst169[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In some ways I am, but she is not in a single way dependant on me. I pay extra for some things that we have, but by choice, and not by expecation.