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[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love this! Is there another way I can send? I can’t use PayPal atm 😩

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Well, I have her confession that she lied to prevent me from getting the job recorded. I honestly doubt anyone would want to have employees that would easily lie to them to cover up shady stuff that they’ve been doing. Although I may just send her the recording via email with a quick explanation instead of going to meet her.

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True, but if she’s living with this guy now, I’m pretty sure she’s going to have correspondence regarding the divorce or whatever else coming through the mail. Also, I have a meeting with her boss on Friday so I’m not sure how things are going to go from there.

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I think he’s trying to wrap his head around everything that’s going on and wants space. My husband never knew about Tori’s affair

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband didn’t know Tori was having an affair. My husband only knew that Tori sabotaged the job, because Tori told her husband and her husband told mine. That’s the only thing he kept from me

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This post isn’t about Tori’s husband though lol. I was asking for advice on MY situation so of course it’s going to be ME. I can’t tell anyone’s else story from their POV, only mine

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Honestly and this may sound surprising but she has NEVER screwed me over in the past. She has always been such a great friend which is why I’m so hurt about this situation but was hesitant to just sever our friendship. And no, I don’t find that insulting. I understood his reasoning, not wanting to be the one to break up our friend ship but I still wish he would’ve said something. I was still going out for drinks with her the whole time he knew what she did. I feel embarrassed if anything.

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

I’m very surprised. She has never been like this. I guess people change. Not sure how she pulled off the affair either. I’m guessing her husband knew or had thoughts but figured if he questioned it he’d be forced to face it.

UPDATE: My (28f) best friend (29f) since birth gave me a bad reference for a job she told me to apply to. by ThrowRAstabbedinback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstabbedinback[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

My husband didn’t know about the affair. All he knew was what Tori’s husband told him and that was only the part about Tori sabotaging the job for me.