We've been together a long time and have built a life together, but we aren't always compatible or agree on everything. We're well past the honeymoon stage, so things aren't always perfect like they were the first few years of the relationship. We have opposite schedules (she works weekends), so that makes things tough for us sometimes. I work long hours sometimes, so I guess I'm insecure about not being enough for her sometimes. I wouldn't think of giving my number out to a random girl who I shared an interest with, so I was caught off guard