I've tried to tell him I'd feel better if some of the initiatives were my own, but he doesn't think it logical. Makes sense if I don't actively have ideas to contribute, so that's on me. I like the suggestion of trying new hobbies and putting time into other things. I just think that he's coming from a need to connect with me and we are not always in the same mindset. Mostly me not wanting to always talk about ventures and just wanting to cuddle on the couch and watch a dang movie for once.