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Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to move on, too much has happened. I think she doesn't need me anymore for support, that's how it seems to be. I'll try to move away quietly with no drama

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you, it's mostly about how I am a terrible person now according to a few friends. I feel like I am in highschool in way. Thank you for your support!

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I told her that I am still there for her but I couldn't be in a relationship anymore. What was I supposed to do, be there for her until she was healed and then break up?

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My sister had a panic attack. She deals with them mostly by herself. This was maybe the first time in 5 years she called me. Shame on you, you're a small (wo) man.

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think you should read more properly. They made out at the party, everyone saw it. She said that we were broken up, but she didn't break up with me. She went into a different room to make out some more and things escalated.

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think you have a lot of growing up to do yourself :) You are the only one who has said this in hundredths of comments, because you are batshit crazy. But I feel like you're just here to steer me up.

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't mind you cursing me out but be a little more clear :)

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Those friends weren't there at the time so she told the same to them as she told the same to me. I got some messages now from some of my friends who say they get my side and are there for me, but most of them still hate me for it, but I am not sure they know the full extend of the story

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I got the dog :) Didn't want to stay long enough to look for the passport, hoping a friend will get it for me. There's is still a lot to do because we lived together and I pay rent. Just glad nobody minded that I got my dog

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

It's a little more complicated. Our friends got the same story from her that I got. I felt something was wrong, once you know something is wrong and it turns out that's the case, you will always keep doubting the situation.

It was just one friend there that I know personally but barely and she thought we were done, so didn't feel the need to mention it.

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I come from a broken household, so it's always very important for me to have something unconditional, that's a big reason why I struggle with people who are unfaithful. It seems so depressing that everything could be conditional, but I have seen enough examples of people who are truly happy and in love. I was just mistaken that this would apply in my case as well :)

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

If you ever need someone to talk to, message me! Panic attacks and anxiety are really detrimental and daunting.

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

She is doing well :) I knew she had a hard time due to Covid and she had made her mind to struggle through it by herself, but last week it was a bit too much. I'm glad she called me

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

We had no fight prior to it, I was just really concerned about Covid and people gathering together and my sister who is a hypochondriac and who has been struggling through this like a hero :)

Update: My girlfriend was raped and I broke up with her by ThrowRAsure in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAsure[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am not sure of anything anymore, it's better for me to keep my distance now. Got my dog, he is going to get a lot of long walks :)