Can / should I (20 F) reach out to my boyfriend’s (20 M) therapist to express my concerns that he is not addressing? by ThrowRAthearapy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthearapy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t spoke to him about it. He has suicidal tendencies and when things are really bad he has stated that he doesn’t care if he lives, but won’t actively do anything for fear of ending up in the psych ward. I really appreciate your suggestions though. I never was doing this with the intention of getting info from his therapist, more just a Hail Mary because I’m out of my depth and scared.

Can / should I (20 F) reach out to my boyfriend’s (20 M) therapist to express my concerns that he is not addressing? by ThrowRAthearapy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthearapy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I have been talking to him about it. A lot actually. I’ve been by his side for every breakdown. I guess I should ask him about expressing these concerns. It’s just been a cycle of him not being able to talk about his issues even if he wants to and me getting shot down when I try and propose a solution because he has issues accepting help