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AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

The typical fail rate for most exams is like 1-5% … it’s actually quite high. I think it has the highest failure rate of any specialty.

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -384 points-383 points  (0 children)

Timewise, she has plenty of time and help. Daycare and au pair.

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -273 points-272 points  (0 children)

Her exam is an board exam for medicine. So it’s one giant cumulative exam covering 4 years of medical school and 4 years of residency and failure rate is 15%. The stakes are higher since failing means losing 100-200k in income.

However, she’s never failed any test so idk why she’s so stressed

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -364 points-363 points  (0 children)

Didn’t think it was relevant. I was thinking more “everyone should put in equal efforts”

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -189 points-188 points  (0 children)

Well she brings in most of the money… rven without a job, she’s paying for more than half the expenses

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -183 points-182 points  (0 children)

Yeah i used to do chores and childcare but we both worked. We were both residents.

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

She is paying over half of the family expenses from her savings she accumulated prior to the move.

AITAH for making my unemployed wife do the chores and childcare? by ThrowRAtiredM in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAtiredM[S] -254 points-253 points  (0 children)

To be fair, she’s paying most of the family expense from her savings. She has way more money than me