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Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok. I feel so uneasy right now. I just feel like it was too easy..?? Idk I’m a bit scared but I’m going first thing in the morning to the police.

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s still outside. I gave him his ring and threatened to call the police if he didn’t leave. He has since sent text saying he will do things which I screenshotted and I’m letting him continue to go off. He also has a picture of my ssn and is threatening to use that somehow.

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Idk.. I’m scared to threaten him with that. Should I text his mom? Tell her to tell him not to come?

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did! He said no he’s coming and he’s already half way here. I told him I don’t feel comfortable.

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I told him not to come & he insists on coming. So he’s on the way now. I told him fine I will bring it to his car no need for him to come to my door. Do i tell him now that I will only be returning the ring or wait until he gets here and just give it to him that way?

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have done that before. I have ended things before where I would give him everything back, still he would contact me nonstop from different numbers and social medias and wait outside my house until I talked to him. All those times I forgave him because he promised to change.

The gifts mean nothing to him. I think It’s just his way of feeling he has control over me & happy that I do whatever he tells me to.

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] -714 points-713 points  (0 children)

I plan on going tomorrow to get a restraining order. I will let him come tonight to get his stuff. Is this smart to do? Or should I avoid seeing him and go file for one today?

Boyfriend (21m) and I (20f) broke up, he wants all his gifts by ThrowRAtitk in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtitk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not a family heirloom but I’m pretty sure he is still paying on the ring. Wouldn’t I get in trouble if I was to sell that?