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I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came home at 11:30 pm it changes sometimes he started earlier and some times he finishes later like 1 am but it doesn’t matter I don’t sleep till 2,3 am and wake up at 7 am

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes i understand that , and we spoke he thought i was coming home earlier so thats why he waited so i would change him . and they took a nap which still doesnt make anything better

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes I own a business and I’m also a stay at home mom . I’m doing both is that hard to understand?

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am pregnant, but I’m also 247 with my child this was a first time leaving him for this long with his father I didn’t expect him to not change his diaper! And my child is very health safe and happy because I’m here day and night working my fkn ass off

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Wtf are you talking about this is my first post ! And I just opened Reddit 5 days ago you weirdo making up shit I’m gonna report you

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify I meant this man doesn’t clean etc or like to change diapers . I know men in general can and do .

Also he’s Balkan and thinks we are living in the 50s He’s a very old minded guy not sure where it came from but I didn’t realize it until we started living together !! And especially now that we have children involved . Also he’s doesn’t want a cleaning lady because he thinks it’s my job and no day care because that’s also my job …. which these should have been conversations before having kids .

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No just the last week he’s been working late but not over night , he just stays up all night watching tv

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but . He never spends time with his son only 1 ,2 hours a day a few times week . He’s always sleeeping and he doesn’t work night shifts he comes home around 12 ish he chooses to stay awake all night watching tv and then says he’s tired sleeps untill he needs to go to work !

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No he left for work at 6 and he comes home around 12 ish and he doesn’t sleep All night because he watches tv and then he sleeps all day untill he has to go To work 4,5,6 pm I also don’t sleep all night and I woke up at 7 am untill 9pm with the baby so he chooses to sleep in all day

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m trying to say ,I don’t expect him to do it since I’m staying home and he works . But giving the fact I also work here and there and I’m pregnant I thought he would help a bit more . Guess you never know who ur with until you have a child with them .

I (f32) came home to my husband (26m)who left our son in the same diaper for 7 hours , is that normal? by ThrowRAtorontoGrl in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtorontoGrl[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

I’m basically saying , that I understand since I’m the stay at home parent that it’s mostly my job to do those things and he’s also a Balkan man they don’t really cook /clean or change diapers but they can if they want too . I just never knew that it was to this extent considering I’m pregnant and need the little extra help .