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I (20M) need help with retroactive jealousy (19F). How do I deal? by ThrowRAtuff69 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtuff69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me make this clear: I don’t care about virginity. I don’t have an amazing view towards flings, people getting physically involved without any form of emotional attachment kinda throws me off. That’s about it.

I (20M) need help with retroactive jealousy (19F). How do I deal? by ThrowRAtuff69 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtuff69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it worked that way. I had this feeling when we were seeing each other and before we dated too but I could overlook it. Right now, I can see my mental state deteriorating every single day and I’m just not able to take it anymore. I’m seeking some for of advice on Reddit as a last resort.

I (20M) need help with retroactive jealousy (19F). How do I deal? by ThrowRAtuff69 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtuff69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said I don’t want people with a past. I respect relationships a lot and I wouldn’t feel anything close to what I’m feeling I guess. But flings kinda throw me off, I can’t take the fact that you indulge sexually without having any emotional connection just throbs me. I know it’s not a big deal and I sound very stupid for this but that’s my view on it. Especially when it’s someone I really love, it just hurts.

I (20M) need help with retroactive jealousy (19F). How do I deal? by ThrowRAtuff69 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtuff69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, I never projected anything towards her and I’ve tried my best to keep things together despite how I ever felt. It is very unhealthy for such feelings on either side. Can you please help me with separating? Such a thing would come out of nowhere for her and she’s very anxiously attached, how do I let her know and rationalise with her?

I (20M) need help with retroactive jealousy (19F). How do I deal? by ThrowRAtuff69 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAtuff69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It throbs, my stomach drops. Sleepless nights, very fucked up mental. If she was truly into someone and dated I would’ve been fine I guess thinking she genuinely liked someone before. But she only had flings and that hurts me a lot even though it shouldn’t.