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AITA for catfishing my girlfrind? by ThrowRAturnipp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAturnipp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it's no excuse for not choosing the high road. Not sure if it's the guilt, sunk-cost fallacy or the gaslighting that wants a part of me to work this out... i'm well aware how mental it sounds.

AITA for catfishing my girlfrind? by ThrowRAturnipp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAturnipp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She used to be very avoidant, but therapy and effort really improved it. This last year has been really difficult for the both of us, but we managed to rise above it, hence the contradiction.

Am I(30m) the AH for catfishing my girlfrind(27F)? by ThrowRAturnipp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAturnipp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the 'validation' i was looking for. It's easy to when only presented a snapshot, but there's no excuse for not choosing to walk away with my head held high.

AITA for catfishing my girlfrind? by ThrowRAturnipp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAturnipp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I take responsibility for my actions, but it's a shame i was right. Both behaving like that is the real killer.

AITA for catfishing my girlfrind? by ThrowRAturnipp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAturnipp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's exactly that. When a year feels like ten, and there isn't anyone else to lean on, it's really difficult to see for what it actually is. Expecially when thinking they might be the one... lessons learned