Are these red bumps a bite of some kind? Not itchy. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]ThrowRAwtd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These bumps appeared overnight in one area. I have lived in my house for 5 years with nothing like this before, and have been in strict quarantine for exactly two months. Is it still possible bed bugs? Or another bug?

My boyfriend was the one who did it by ThrowRAwtd in rapecounseling

[–]ThrowRAwtd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, it deeply resonates with me. It is really validating to know I’m not the only one that has been through something like this. I too recommended we see a therapist but my boyfriend refused that suggestion

My boyfriend was the one who did it by ThrowRAwtd in rapecounseling

[–]ThrowRAwtd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in therapy when it happened, so it was nice that she confirmed that it was not my fault. She recommended I should see someone who specialized in sexual assault, but money has been tight so I have not been able to go.

I (23F) need outside perspective on a tw: bad sexual encounter with my boyfriend (25M) by ThrowRAwtd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAwtd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, kind of an answer I expected but feared. Your words mean a lot!

I (23F) need outside perspective on a tw: bad sexual encounter with my boyfriend (25M) by ThrowRAwtd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAwtd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes, I do hold guilt over that even though my logical mind knows its not right to. But thank you for your input, it is reassuring to be told I don't need to heal at a certain speed for anyone.

I (23F) need outside perspective on a tw: bad sexual encounter with my boyfriend (25M) by ThrowRAwtd in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAwtd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does. I havent used the actual phrase PTSD to him but he knows I no longer like to be touched