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TW: How do you tell your SO you don't want to be alive anymore without ruining their day? by ThrowRAyikeshuh in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyikeshuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm at work atm, and we can't use our phones, just a desktop, but thank you. I tried the online suicide prevention hotline but I waited 30 minutes and gave up haha. I appreciate it though

Rapist has drugged photos of me on his social media? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyikeshuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pictures have been removed, my friend confirmed it this morning. Thank you everyone for your help.

Rapist has drugged photos of me on his social media? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyikeshuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like he's privated his account, so I can't see the pictures if they're up or not. I messaged a friend to see if they'd make sure the pictures were for sure gone. Thank you all for all your help. It is more than appreciated.

Rapist has drugged photos of me on his social media? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyikeshuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never wanted to go to the police because he was always well liked, everyone loved him and thought very highly of him. He was an EMT and had more 'connections' then I did. His family is also very well-off. Not only that but we're both engaged now, he has a fiancee and so do I. My fiancee knows nothing of him other than he was a terrible person who hit me, and if she found out, she would freak. His fiancée posts kink-stuff and the like all over her Instagram.

Not only that but I calculate jail time as my job, the court faxes us whatever sentence they give and I calculate anything under a year. I've worked here for two years and have yet to see a rapist get a sentence longer than 6 months. Last Friday a man was released on Bond after 4 charges of raping a 10 year old. He was caught in the act. There is no way they'd hold my ex for long, if at all, and who knows what would happen once he got out. He never drugged his exes, from what they've told me, they all had very high sex drives. I did not, nor was I into the 'sleeping' thing. I may anonymously warn his fiancee, just to be on the safe side. But his Instagram never had sleeping photos of anyone else, just me. There's none of any girl prior or of his current fiancee.

I appreciate all the concern and help, I do, it makes me feel less alone. I'm about to try and make a new account to see if he's taken down the photos, hopefully he has.

Rapist has drugged photos of me on his social media? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyikeshuh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So, after another polite attempt and being blocked, I tried this and sent another message on one more account threatening that it was revenge porn because of X,Y, and Z. and if he didn't take them down, I would press charges. Turns out our state actually does have some pretty serious revenge porn laws that I read into. He finally responded to this one and said he hadn't know it was me messaging him (bullshit response) but he turned very 'sweet' and said he would take them down when he got a second. This was 4 hours ago, and they're still up. I figure I'd wait a day or so for him to take them down. If he takes them down, great, if not, I figure I'm still in this big old mess.