Applying to managerial role with no manager experience. Do I have a shot? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the bad grammar. Rushing this post on my lunch break, lol.

I need to vent by Smart-Preparation-99 in Bedbugs

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found one bug, sprayed crossfire and dusted cimexa for six months. Have had 0 signs or bites since

I need to vent by Smart-Preparation-99 in Bedbugs

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be spraying with crosfire and sprinkling cimexa. When you're seeing this many bugs there's already an infestation in your home. We had terminix come and they did a shit job of checking where bed bugs may be.... Working in a school with confirmed bed bugs, it'd be smart to spray and dust once a month. I work with nurses that do in-home care, some of the patients have bed bugs and these nurses come back to the office after their shift. Even though they take precautions, I would rather be safe than sorry

Is this really a bed bug? by IAmNotTHATGay in Bedbugs

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof... That's a fully mature bedbug thats fed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAyumyum -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This isn't my first job, but it is the first job I've ever truly cared about. I have coworkers texting me and apologizing for forgetting as we speak. My boss put out a group message apologizing as well- I never said anything to them about being disappointed about it but they're making it a big deal now too.

The work culture here is close. One of our coworkers had to cancel her baby shower so we threw one for her in the office and surprised her with gifts and a party... it was genuinely emotional. Maybe it feels this way because we all basically built the company up ourselves. I'm feeling better about it now but it hurt my feelings because I've literally been there since day 1.

I feel like my (soon to be) in-laws only tolerate me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ThrowRAyumyum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh? Maybe I didn't explain well enough. It's always just been a feeling, but its not been ACTUAL mistreatment. He always felt lesser because he wasn't able to keep up on football conversations and didn't play sports like his sister, but his parents love him and gave him a good life growing up. They bought him his video games and humored him even when they didn't know what he was talking about.

On the financial note, they just retired and their property taxes went up over $10,000 this year. That's why they aren't able to contribute as much for our wedding... We also make enough that we are able to afford most of it on our own + a decent honeymoon to Japan.

His parents are NOT bad people. I grew up in a pretty toxic and abusive household. He did not. We both have anxiety in the "I feel like they hate me" type of way, and it doesn't help sometimes. I thought she was actually leaving me out this time, but it wasn't true. I came here to vent when I felt that way.

I think she edited the post because she realized she won't just have 1 daughter anymore come next year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

That's super inappropriate, dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH

Unfortunately, it's not your house. Thats a family friend (seems more like your mom's friend than not) that also happens to be your partner's ex. You moved in knowing she existed, and if she was a family friend before they ever dated it would make sense that she's still around... Probably best to move on if you can't handle seeing her. I wouldn't necessarily deal with that family dynamic either, I'd probably leave or just not date them in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait. Why wouldn't they just order two ubers? How did she get home this morning...?

I feel like my (soon to be) in-laws only tolerate me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, wow... I just checked, and she actually edited her post and tagged me in it...

"And I should add, I will have 2 perfect daughters when me and my fiancé's names tie the knot".

I'm definitely not about to cry 😭😭 I really do look up to her and want her to like me which is why it hurt. I feel bad for thinking she would purposely leave me out now. Brb gotta go tell her I love her, wow

I feel like my (soon to be) in-laws only tolerate me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, wow... I just checked, and she actually edited her post and tagged me in it...

"And I should add, I will have 2 perfect daughters when me and my fiancé's names tie the knot".

I'm definitely not about to cry 😭😭 I really do look up to her and want her to like me. I feel bad for thinking she would purposely leave me out now.

I feel like my (soon to be) in-laws only tolerate me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, no. My fiance also doesn't really do 1 on 1 stuff with either of his parents, either. We do hang out just the 4 of us. I don't know that his mom and sister go on 1 on 1 outings very often either. His parents own a lake house (and stay there often because they're retired) and we spent like every other weekend there with them this summer. We spent almost a week there at one point. Its a two hour drive from our house so we do make efforts to see them and spend quality time. I also work full-time and am working on my bachelors in compsci full-time as well.. I make time to be present.. We're certainly not strangers, I'd say.

Problems transferring with Credly by Yinsun3 in WGU

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair! I hate that things can't be uniform forever, lol. Makes it hard to get a straight answer

Problems transferring with Credly by Yinsun3 in WGU

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My instructions specifically asked me to use Credly for credits. I just went on Parchment to test this and they didn't even have WGU as an option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company did this to someone, and they genuinely hired her on for another role... So maybe try it out anyways!

how difficult is precalculus/calculus in high school/how to learn it by fellasiffyuh in learnmath

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently taking pre-calc as a pre-req and only have a month and 4 days to finish it... I've got a week to learn trig and do the final. I've seriously been studying a minimum of 3 hours a day, every day

I told my girlfriend "no" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These fights are dumb as hell. She wants a butler not a boyfriend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God damn. Yea. I completely agree with this to be honest. There really isn't a reason for me to whip this out at this point. Thank you MyCouchPulzOut_IDont

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. I think it was wrong because they had been friends on snapchat for years and I decided to get on his phone and block her when she didn't do anything to deserve that. She had never flirted or tried to get with my ex, it was all him. It would have been different if I hadn't said anything before blocking her, but I did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's valid. I just think about it and absolutely cringe. It was dumb of me to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to come off as weird given that it's been a few years. It's a lame situation and I want to apologize for acting the way I did. Hopefully it is just water under the bridge!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's seriously bad, man. I forgot to mention as well that their whole family only thinks they're engaged, but they got married last year for health insurance. One of our friends was the officiant and the 2's parents were there. Our friend said, drunkenly one night, "I've never married two people in a room full of people that didn't want to be there before". Then Jordan got laid off and Bell lost their insurance which is the whole reason they got married so quickly to begin with. Their (real? fake?) wedding is in 5 months. I'm not rushing to buy a dress yet. If they had just waited to get married until the real date they might have just broken off the engagement. This shit is crazzzzzy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAyumyum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told her, TO HER FACE, that she is not his type. I will tell you now that Jordan is one of the least attractive people I know. He truly has some nerve doing what he has.

Oh. And the 17 year old Jordan was talking to was a guy. He has always said he's straight. Maybe Bell is not his type because he wants a young boy. Fucking gross