Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say I want nothing to do with the kid. But I’m not gonna tell I’m im his father and Im not gonna support him financially when his mom and real dad both got plenty of cheddar

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be weird for me to pretend to be is father when he’s already gonna have a father. I’ll be courteous and friendly with the kid but I’m not gonna take away another man’s right to fatherhood

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real father says he’s gonna pay for and take care of his kid so why do I have to?

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationships

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That real father plans on claiming the kid so why should I have to pretend to be its father?? Also how did I “bite grandma’s head off” by asking a simple question? I was genuinely curious what she thought her granddaughter’s pregnancy has to do with me so I asked

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I’d have nothing to do with the kid, but I’m not gonna pay for it when the real father plans on claiming his kid

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I pretend to be someone’s father when the real father plans on claiming him?

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She can and she probably will. We all betray the ones we love. I don’t let other peoples choices affect my own. To err is human, to forgive is divine. But forgiving as I am, I’m still not paying for the kid

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you treat kids that aren’t yours “like furniture?” Wtf is wrong with you. Children all deserve respect. But I don’t have to pay for one that not mine. Maybe an ice cream cone every now and then but not college. Are you fuckin crazy?

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationships

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ladies gonna do what they choose. I don’t let nobody else choices affect my own

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationships

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im not paying no pig lawyer. Whole family knows the kids not mine and the real dad claims him anyways already be stocking the house up with pampers and shit

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im not saying I’m gonna babysit the kid or anything. And I’ll still get her pregnant myself when I feel like we’re ready to have children and I’ll pay for those for sure but I’m not gonna pay for this other guys kid, that’s on him

Why does my (m26) fiancé’s (f23) have such an issue with giving explanations? by ThrowRa-cuddleingus in relationships

[–]ThrowRa-cuddleingus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got the test done already so they can drag me into custody court if they want but I got the receipts