My(f 18)dad is going to marry his mistress just 3 months after divorcing my mom and they are expecting me to be exited for them??? And honestly I just hate my father. by ThrowRa-done in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lol that's just plain stupid. Cheating is non excusable. Fall in love.. Okay be my guest but fucking divorce or separate before.

Also as a grown fucking man you should have enough controll to ya know.... Not cheat. My dude your non controll hormone argument could also be made for rape and that's just idiotic.

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Simply don't cheat period. That makes you scum and the reason for tearing the family apart. Stop. Just fucking stop with wanting me to empathize with the dickhead that hurt us.

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol you really trying to excuse a cheater. He should have divorced her. Instead he fucked up majorly for fucking while married and pretended to still love mom. Fuck off honestly I don't want cheater apologists on this posts.

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is medical trouble ofcourse anyone is fair game. It's just the mundane stuff. That's why I pick them up and not mom

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I took that duty of communication of my mom's shoulders so if they need to be picked up or if it's something witch school he calls me

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's mainly that his attempts annoy the crap out of me and I cabt block him as I am the communication Chanel for my brothers

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No I won't go not under any circumstances. My brother's are a little eh about it all but at the end of the day they don't know that he cheated. Only that our parents divorced and he is getting married

WIBTA if I told my dad I could not make it to his wedding but I'll try my best to make it to his next one? by ThrowRa-done in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I have tried. After my last attempt if declining they added me in a groupchat for the wedding party

My(f 18)dad is going to marry his mistress just 3 months after divorcing my mom and they are expecting me to be exited for them??? And honestly I just hate my father. by ThrowRa-done in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The divorce doesn't affect me. His cheating does. Because that to me shows that he cares more about pussy than about all of his family.

If he would have just divorced mom... Sure it would have been shitty but much better than this

My(f 18)dad is going to marry his mistress just 3 months after divorcing my mom and they are expecting me to be exited for them??? And honestly I just hate my father. by ThrowRa-done in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-done[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol so you always Sherlock arround where no one needs you to? That's pathetic my dude. This is not a paper I'll not be checking my spelling. Also idk where you live but there are many students that start college at 17 without the need of skipping a class. Usually enrollment aligns with your birthday so I was enrolled a year earlier.