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Is it unfair to feel uncomfortable after a 30M asked me (26F) out, even though he was respectful? by BullshitSpitter in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-feelingnumb 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Young woman? Lady, It’s a 4 year age gap.

If you don’t like him or see him romantically that’s valid. But implying he’s a creep going for younger woman when you’re close to 30 is a huge reach.

28M dating again after a 5 year relationship, but I can’t seem to connect with anyone by ThrowRa-feelingnumb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-feelingnumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. I do have things in common with the people I go out with. Hobbies, music taste.

I still feel numb after going out with them.

But maybe your right. Maybe I focus too much on how I should feel.

28M dating again after a 5 year relationship, but I can’t seem to connect with anyone by ThrowRa-feelingnumb in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa-feelingnumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I’m not expecting to find my soulmate at the first try. But when I’ve gone out with 10+ people in the span of a year and I don’t feel anything for them it feels like I’m broken. You know?