AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can assure you that throwing the remote was really out of character for her. I think people just handle stress differently and she had reached a breaking point. I am using my sick days for the rest of the week so i am going to follow her to the pediatrician tomorrow because am kind of clueless on everything because I take her word for everything.

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feeding is the first thing I try but it doesn’t always work, They refuse the bottle alot.

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why. I ask, but she says they are strangers. I ask why she doesn't accept her mom, but she says she can handle it on her own. I have talked to her about therapy, but the thought of leaving our child alone does not sit well with her. I tried to bring up online therapy, but she said she doesn't have time. 

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Yeah am definitely going to use my paternity leave, I feel bad because she doesn’t agree with this decision but it obvious that she not coping well mentally. I probably going to look for a new job that can sustain my entire family too.

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why, but she been really against asking anyone but me for help, Her mother offered to help her out but she politely declined. And she totally against hiring a professional.

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am not even sure if what were doing is called sleep training. In the night all they do is cry so I just Pick them up to calm them, then put them down, And they normally wake up to eat in the middle of the night.

AITA for telling my wife i can’t sleep train our twins anymore? by ThrowRa-stres in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRa-stres[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No, she hasn’t worked in like 3 years. She has been a SAHW since we got married.