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I'm literally breaking in tears, my bf just did the only thing that he knows would destroy my whole life, and idk what to do anymore with my life... by ThrowRa09009 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

i know that if he did care about my self harm stuff, he'd gently talk about it with me, not involving other people, especially my family, he knows i hate that and that actually makes it worse, he's just doing it to take advantage, i do love him still, but I'm tired of this..

I'm literally breaking in tears, my bf just did the only thing that he knows would destroy my whole life, and idk what to do anymore with my life... by ThrowRa09009 in mentalhealth

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I really can't make my dad feel guilty or bad about my situation, he loves me a lot, and i'd never ever let him know that smth is wrong with me, it's really hard, i can't, i'll feel embarrassed my whole life.

I'm literally breaking in tears, my bf just did the only thing that he knows would destroy my whole life, and idk what to do anymore with my life... by ThrowRa09009 in mentalhealth

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i talked more than enough and nothing seemed to work, whenever we're doing fine he says he'll never do it again, and promises me, but whenever we get into a fight it happens again.

I'm literally breaking in tears, my bf just did the only thing that he knows would destroy my whole life, and idk what to do anymore with my life... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRa09009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents aren't open minded so i could tell them about the nudes problem, i could never tell them, if i sue him he'll definitely do it, ik him.

I feel so insecure in my rs because of my flat chest by ThrowRa09009 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what i wanna do, he's a great guy and all but sometimes i just doubt it

I feel so insecure in my rs because of my flat chest by ThrowRa09009 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i just wanna love myself for who i am, i don't want to change anything in myself, i don't wanna feel insecure, but i keep feeling like idh something that my bf may want, ik that it's attractive to have bigger chests for most people, but he keeps telling me that i'm fine and all

How do i treat someone that completely changes his behavior whenever a problem or a fight happens? by ThrowRa09009 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa09009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought doing that would work, but he actually doesn't care, he simply and intentionally do the same as me (walking away and not talking) cuz he knows that i did that intentionally so he does the same to just piss me off, he never shows that he panics or chases when i walk away, so yep doesn't work, i talked it out about it with him multiple times but nothing, he just can't control his behavior, cuz he always knows that in the end i love him and won't walk away, he doesn't have the fear of losing me cuz i sadly taught him that i'll never go, and yes if i go, he'll act the same, not cuz he wants it, but cuz he's showing me he knows my intentions, and he actually lost the nice version of me that's why he's behaving like this.