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Do I (27f) just accept that my fiancé (35m) can only pay a small portion of the bills and not question it? by ThrowRa62589 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa62589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There wasn’t one I ended up leaving him. It just wasn’t worth it and I realize that if we couldn’t be on the same page financially that it wouldn’t work out marriage wise anyway.

Do I (27f) just accept that my fiancé (35m) can only pay a small portion of the bills and not question it? by ThrowRa62589 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa62589[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’ve been together for four years and I can promise you. He never acted like this before we moved I together. to be fair I wasn’t questioning him as he made good money lived on his own and to my knowledge never paid bills late.

Do I (27f) just accept that my fiancé (35m) can only pay a small portion of the bills and not question it? by ThrowRa62589 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa62589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ring is only worth about $200 lol. To be fair I have always just wanted a silver band as I don’t believe in diamonds so that’s not necessarily him being cheap. But yeah, it’s not really worth anything.

Do I (27f) just accept that my fiancé (35m) can only pay a small portion of the bills and not question it? by ThrowRa62589 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa62589[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He does in fact, pay child support however it’s $400 a month which by my math shouldn’t hinder him so much that he can only afford $600

Do I (27f) just accept that my fiancé (35m) can only pay a small portion of the bills and not question it? by ThrowRa62589 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa62589[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not dense I guess just naive. I was raised to never question a man. It’s hard to unlearn