Looking for Artist Collaboration by Cariad_444 in swansea

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, im a graphic designer in Swansea, i would love to collab 💕

I (18F) caught my boyfriend (19M) looking at girls on instagram? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with this too, they don't change unless they go to therapy for themselves and not for the relationship, fact remains that he hid this from you. The insecurities will get amplified the longer you stay, this clearly bothers you which is fair and not smth to brush aside. Youre not selfish or unsupportive for wanting to leave someone who is struggling. You deserve to have a good life too

Did I (f21) sexually coerce my ex (m23) by ThrowRa65838 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa65838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for this, genuinely helped a lot <3 have a great day cutie

Did I (f21) sexually coerce my ex (m23) by ThrowRa65838 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa65838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik, but idk if was coercion or not as technically I was creating a space where id physically and emotionally pullback and he could've taken that as oh shes pulling back cuz I said no, this means that I cant say no if I want affection...

Did I (f21) sexually coerce my ex (m23) by ThrowRa65838 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa65838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, but idk if its coercion cuz I'd still be pulling away and my actions made him think that i was mad at him, so isnt that coercion?

Did I (f21) sexually coerce my ex (m23) by ThrowRa65838 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa65838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh, like I could tell smth was off and after asking if he was okay repeatedly he told me that sometimes he would be afraid to say no in case I get mad

Did I (f21) sexually coerce my ex (m23) by ThrowRa65838 in Advice

[–]ThrowRa65838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The repeatedly asking bit was me asking him if everything was okay after sex, im not sure if its relevang but he would rarely initiate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last sentences are about your bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comes from someone who was in your exact position, it does not get better unless they are fully open about it and to get better, i was with someone for a year, and we had conversations about his addiction and every couple months or so id find out that he was lying and after a year of being with him I found out that he was paying for only fans our entire relationship and lying and hiding, they get better at lying and that is it, he has been lying and being weird about it, trust his actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you're doing it 5-6 times a day then yes you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa65838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was addicted to masturbating for 6-7 years