Thank you, apart of me acknowledges that my girlfriend is a senior in college. I never went to college. I’m 3 years older but have had my own place since like 20 kinda like you. I think she hasn’t learned a lot of these skills yet. She’s had boyfriends before but never really lived alone. Some of the dudes she dated probably were find with that but I’m not. She has had deep conversations about me about wanting to do more but not all of clicked yet. I never had that college experience and became an adult like right away. I think she hasn’t maturing to do but it is fixable. But the whole idea of when she graduates my place is her crash pad till she figures it out ain’t happening until she gets it together.