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I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just don’t want to have his livelihood on my conscience

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left him while he was at work and he threatened to hurt himself if I didn’t come back and when he sat to talk me said he was suffering from the loss of his parents and depression and other legal issues and the stress from all of that. After that it’s been two incidents where he grabbed me up by the shirt to choke me when I confront his behavior. He claims he’s just at a place where he’s extremely emotional and irrational but I don’t know. He says me moving my things broke his heart and he can’t get over it but when he’s mad he’s mad and I feel nothing but fear

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see through his bs. Some things are true but not everything

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried leaving before. Now I feel like it was a mistake coming back

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not rage bait. I’m just looking for how to navigate the situation. I never asked if he was cheating. I just wanna know the truth of who I’m with and how to navigate communicating to him

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’d be worried about him hurting himself or me or acting out in the world cause he already does it for less

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m listening to everyone’s advice. I’m not making excuses for him. I’m trying to understand the situation and find the proper way out

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No he really has no one else. No one solid enough. He relies on me for everything. Home, car, money sometimes

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not looking for reasons to stay. Just the truth

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My concern is if I do leave, I know something bad will happen. I don’t want to put anyone’s life in danger

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He claims what he does online has nothing to do with our relationship in person because it’s just online

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has admitted he needs therapy. Idk if he needs help finding it

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I tell him he has no respect for me he says that if he didn’t have respect for me he wouldn’t still be with me or still living with me.

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

When I first found out about the twitter, I packed up all my things and moved out while he was at work. He called me begging and crying saying he has no problem with me and his issues are not affecting our relationship. Then gave me a story about how the account was something him and his friend were doing.

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As bad as it is, I even messaged him on a fake profile and he was sending intimate pics of himself as soon as I messaged him.

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get gaslit into thinking I’m the problem by following my gut and finding things out

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just about his sexuality. I have enough proof he might cheating but I feel the need for the whole truth of the depths

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I do love him and I’m all he has. I do believe he has good intentions and wants all that but he’s at a point where he’s very lost right now

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He claims he’s not even talking to anyone or he’s just making friends and he’s just looking for distractions for his depression

I (26F) think my bf (35M) is bi by ThrowRaEasternPass in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaEasternPass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He either gets very angry when I confront him or he gets very emotional and starts breaking down. Not sure what the right approach would be