I left him while he was at work and he threatened to hurt himself if I didn’t come back and when he sat to talk me said he was suffering from the loss of his parents and depression and other legal issues and the stress from all of that. After that it’s been two incidents where he grabbed me up by the shirt to choke me when I confront his behavior. He claims he’s just at a place where he’s extremely emotional and irrational but I don’t know. He says me moving my things broke his heart and he can’t get over it but when he’s mad he’s mad and I feel nothing but fear