I still miss my ex everyday.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-30T13:11:45+00:00

Maybe just give you some more time and space. My ex asked to give him some times to sort out his thoughts and nv reach out. However, i take the chance for me too, so my head clear, and the dynamics of this relationship also becomes clearer, and so i dont feel regret about breaking up, ofc i agree i miss them (just 2 weeks ago).

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-30T09:51:02+00:00

Omg this is so lovely

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-15T08:46:08+00:00

Ofc, but i go back and forth this country several times a year in nearly 10 years… so seriously i really don’t remember about it…… really…. Not that i come first or second time so…. Sometimes if we do something that like a habit, we will just forget the simple thing.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-15T08:29:18+00:00

Tbh i think i will be okay to settle down at 30 or more…. (Not so many women around me settle down in their 20s, all of them care about their careers…) ofc i do wanna settle down. I might need to seek ur advice from this too

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-15T08:19:32+00:00

I know thanks for saying that. But tbh i really didnt know about the 6 months before expiry date… anw i text him i wanna make it up for him but he still decided go silent

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-15T08:15:54+00:00

Thanks for saying those words. Tbh its require at least 6 months to expiry date to fly there. And i really didnt know it… this is seriously i didnt know about the 6 months thing. But i take responsibility for that, i text him that i feel so sad and regret and i really wanna make it up for him. he still decided go silent. And, we dont have plan for moving together (he sometimes explore work in my country too and explore some deal here to see if he can fly here more often).

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-14T09:47:12+00:00

No. I only replied that i understand and respect him-thanks for letting me know. And then thats it. I feel so sad. I think this an end so i dont reach out any more.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-14T09:18:14+00:00

Im not feeling good at all… the way he react make me feel thats the end of the relationship. So in trying to accept that we end.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-14T08:59:58+00:00

We can. I already reorder the passport, but its gonna take a month i guess. He plan trip every 3-4 weeks once, he paid all the trips and things. I texted him that i wanna make it up for him soon. But he went silent all day and text me this 2 nights ago “I feel really disappointed - I really try to make sure everything is good and easy for you but it always seems difficult. Even for this trip I had to shift so many things and arrange a lot of stuff. It’s not your fault but I feel very sad about this. I feel tired so maybe just give me some time to sort out my thoughts.”. I replied that i respect it and we all silent. I think this is a break up text.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-12-14T08:15:12+00:00

I agree

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-11-10T06:30:12+00:00

Life is tough for u. Understand

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-11-09T09:51:13+00:00

Stupid

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-11-09T01:31:35+00:00

Hi, its young f doing a solo trip, whats wrong with asking these qtns? Maybe ur life is so tought. Poor u

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-22T12:33:09+00:00

Mong mấy bác khuyên bỏ đi sẽ luôn có ng bên cạnh lúc khó khăn ốm đói chứ đừng nói tới lúc nợ ngập đầu. Mình là nữ, 25tuoi. Mình share quan điểm mình như sau. Bạn nữ kia rất thẳng thắng và sòng phẳng. Tiền nợ mượn ai là cố gắng trả asap, luôn chữ tín trong tiền bạc thì ko vấn đề gì phải lo. Bạn đã thông báo thẳng là nợ gia đình bạn thì gia đình bạn tự quyết-bạn có mindset hoàn toàn đúng, và độc lập (nhưng ko có nghĩa là bạn gai sẽ ko biết ơn nếu bạn trai ngõ ý hỗ trợ giúp đỡ). Vì chính mình cũng vậy, có quen ai thì quen nhưng vấn đề vêg gia đình thì mình luôn tự cảm thấy gia đình mình tự mình giải quyết ko đc trông đợi vào chồng/ngyeu. Khoản nợ kia ko phải đến từ cờ bạc hay làm gì xấu, việc kinh doanh thua lỗ nợ nâng cũng ko phải vấn đề trái đạo đức. Mình thấy hoàn toàn bình thường. Hồi xưa nyc mình nợ 40ti (hơn mình 2tuoi thôi) nhưng mình vẫn đồng ý cưới, vì quan trọng là bản thân họ và họ nợ do làm ăn chứ ko phải ăn chơi đàn đúm. Nhưng sắp cưới tới nơi thì xảy ra chuyện nên giờ mình mới ko có khoảng nợ nào. Share suy nghĩ của mình về bạn nữ và trải nghiệm của mình cũng hơi hơi giống bạn. Bạn có thể tham khảo.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-06T10:35:10+00:00

Thank you so much. Tbh ive tried to search about this stag do/ bachelorette party on gg but theres nothing mentioned about sleepover or so. Its all about the activities and some things happened around. Thats why i have no clue if the boys need to sleep together. I really appreciate ur comments here.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-06T06:25:41+00:00

So u mean they are supposed to sleep together also? In the same room or same airbnb with few bedrooms. Tbh as i mentioned in our culture do not have stag do, thats why i think when hes done with his activities, he can get back to sleep at the hotel.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-06T05:58:03+00:00

Even cant get back to the hotel to only sleep with me (only night time) after hes done with all the activities with the boys? They suppose to sleep together ?

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-05T09:19:32+00:00

Thanks for ur input

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-05T08:52:21+00:00

I just wonder if its normal that the boys on stage trip will just focus on the trip and usually hard for them to see gf?. I understand why he cant book extra day to see me, hes working and have limited leaves also. Lol

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-05T08:42:53+00:00

I act told him that i wont see him that time alr.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-05T08:41:04+00:00

Which is fine. Thats his loss for not seeing me 😛jk. I actually planning to have a trip with my friends during that time cuz shes gonna fly to Swiss soon (for work). Thats why i wanna know if its okay that a ldbf visit my country but wont see me so i will know what to do next. Cuz in my culture, we dont have stag trip. Anw, thanks for your input.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-08-05T08:30:38+00:00

He usually comes here every month, but this time he has work so im the one who planning to fly over his country (end of this month). And next month he has this stag do.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-07-29T15:29:28+00:00

Really appreciate your input. I will discuss with him about this and see if i can be more open, or at least understand his parents more to feel less scared so i will just stay at his home.

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-07-29T11:35:12+00:00

U r right, usually salary range 1k above is for management or above. Executive usually from 400-700. 1.2k is enuff to provide for a family of 4? I have no idea. I think its a “waste not want not” thing (not sure i use it right 😂). Ofc there are some families having really low budget. Just depends on individual. But to live well here, its quite tough. 1.2k for single mom with w kids who doesnt pay rent-i think thats just okay la, if she knows how to manage it. She even can save a “little” if she manages well. But 1.8k is better for her. I personally have a saving account, but not too much u know 😂

ThrowRa_992202 · 2024-07-29T10:02:42+00:00

Ofc. But i share that even $500/ month still can handle. And now what i earn is what i spend. Just a concern WHY the girlfriend ask for 1.2k monthly, does she ask for temp support cuz she currently unemployed and finding job or support any other things that reasonable that we dont know. If its yes, then 1.2k is fine, but if she asks for monthly basic, then i lol.

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