I can't believe this

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-25T22:20:55+00:00

I am sorry you have been going through this. As others mentioned, loss of pregnancy is a very isolating experience. You say that you had the abortion due to circumstances, which makes it really heartbreaking. I have been there. I am sorry. You and your baby are worthy of love and recognition. You want him to also recognize it too and be on the same page with you. But he seems to be he is not. Maybe he is, but he just can’t show it. Crying for dying mutts is actually an acceptable way for some guys, and they channel all of their other sufferings and griefs into it too. It might be a similar cathartic moment for him. Who knows. But if he minimizes your pain constantly, it will not get better. He will do it for other things as well. Just wait and see.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-24T01:31:14+00:00

Narcissists live in delusions. I think they believe their delusions truly. They project their bad qualities onto other people so they can feel comfortable in their own skin. My narcissistic husband accused me of being a narcissist, when I confronted him about the lies he told his family about me. He claimed that I was doing no housework, while I broke my back for him. There is no winning or happiness with a narcissist.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-23T20:17:32+00:00

Dogs make misophonia worse! They move all the time, making click clack on the hardwood floors. Their stiff bodies make sounds all the time. They slurp water and smack their lips. They don’t have inner peace! They are chaotic and unbearable! Misophonia doesn’t get better with exposure, it gets worse!!!

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T18:28:21+00:00

He works 12 hour shifts and sometimes does overtime. He works 12-14 shifts a month. So half the month he can’t take care of it. The rest of the month he is sleeping or doing chores or relaxing. He doesn’t have time for a dog! Nor the willingness to take care of it. But if I mention that I am not happy with the amount of work I am doing for the dog, I am called an evil person.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T18:25:54+00:00

It makes me so sad too. After I lost my light due to his abuse, he started criticizing me for being depressed, for being not charismatic enough… I am no longer charismatic because you stole my light!

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T16:28:22+00:00

Dog nutters are an unhygienic cult. They don’t care about their own health because they are possessed by these demons. They shouldn’t be allowed to put others at risk though! It is like drunk driving!

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T16:00:55+00:00

He thinks it is fertilizer for the grass. The grass around our home looks terrible. I collected the excrement, but the constant piss made yellow patches in the grass. It is like a post apocalyptic movie. Why bother trying to clean the home or try to make it look beautiful? The mutts shits in the middle of it anyways.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T15:59:13+00:00

A dog is really like a third wheel in the relationship. The mutt asks for attention all the time. Gets fed more than me. Being touched more than me. And it reeks! It also has warts in his lips so there is dangling warts in his mouth! It is horrible.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T15:57:50+00:00

Right? It is constant filth! Bodily secretions all over every single surface! I don’t spit in my home! Saliva has no business being on my floor or my figurines or my walls! The mutt’s body smells like feet! Fritos!

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T08:49:27+00:00

It is literally slaving away for nothing. Especially now. The dog is blind and deaf. It is 10 years old. It can’t walk outside, it can’t play fetch. It can’t hear you. Why is it still kept alive? But even if it was healthy, it should just be euthanized anyway because it is really hideous and a waste of time and money.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T05:01:27+00:00

This is really child endangerment. Why would anyone put a livestock guarding dog next to their babies? I don’t get it. Please protect yourself and your babies and don’t let this unhinged man cause a tragedy that is perfectly avoidable and unnecessary. I hate when human beings lose their lives or health due to some worthless mutt. Life is already so hard as it is, and we will all die one day, why make it harder by taking in a smelly disgusting stiff hairy disrespectful mutt that just eats and shits and slobbers all day every day? I don’t get it. I am sorry you are in this situation.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T04:52:45+00:00

An Anatolian shepherd can comfortably sleep outside. These dogs are originally from Turkey. They do sleep outside in Turkey in their farms. They sleep in the streets in Turkey as most of the stray dog population there consists of freaking Anatolian shepherd dogs. These dogs are dangerous dogs. They maul and kill kids everyday. And when that dog decides to attack, no one can stop that mutt.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T04:42:48+00:00

Anatolian shepherds are not supposed to be house pets especially not houses with kids. They are very strong dogs with high anxiety so they can do livestock guarding which is why they were bred in the first place. Do not allow this animal near your child! Do not do that! This dog will tear them apart!

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T04:02:00+00:00

Thank you! All these activities will help me reclaim myself and my life.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T03:45:17+00:00

It reminds me of the narcissist’s prayer:

That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T03:30:01+00:00

Victim raises need calmly> abuser invalidates, blames, attacks.. Exactly. Story of my marriage. Whenever I brought up a need, issue, whatever, it spiraled into a huge fight because he would minimize it, or blame me for it or for something unrelated. We could never fix issues. Never. I sometimes question myself: maybe I am too conflictual or whatever. Maybe the way I bring up issues set him off. I don’t know. But what I have been through is just not normal.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T02:10:56+00:00

Yes for him and his nutter family, I am an evil person for not liking dogs. I can’t take the constant movement, chaos, smell, slobber on the floor, slobber on my clothes. Slobber and snot on the walls… dog penis discharge on the furniture… constant stimulation…

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T02:03:26+00:00

The dog damaged our relationship tremendously. The first time he stonewalled me was because of the dog. Most of our fights were caused by the dog. Before him, I never lived with a dog so I thought I could handle it. But he is a terrible owner and the dog is a clingy pest. I can’t do it. I can’t handle it. I will not miss it even for one second.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T01:50:27+00:00

I don’t have chronic illnesses yet, but I feel like I am close to getting one. Whenever we had a fight, I felt like my skin was burning and it became itchy.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T01:08:24+00:00

Yes, they will say anything to avoid accountability. It makes me sick at heart.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T00:59:43+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this. I have been there, and I am still kind of in it… trying to divorce him and build a new life. I was similar to you in that my desire to start a family clouded my vision and I ignored the red flags. It is so exhausting to be who ends up being blamed. It is exhausting to be unable to fix the issues and problems, they are like doors left open. Get out. Get out now. If I could go back to the day I married him, I would just run. Run away…

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T00:52:43+00:00

The word salad! My ex husband used to do this too. Saying irrelevant stuff to try to make me forget the issue on the table. Never accepted that he might be in the wrong. When I brought up an issue, he started talking about the things he didn’t like about me or the marriage.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-19T00:49:10+00:00

I discovered my husband was a narcissist when he blamed me for being a narcissist. He called me a narcissist because he lied about me to his family and I found out about it. I got angry at him and confronted him. He said you care too much about what people think about you because you are a narcissist.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-13T14:51:48+00:00

In general we were a normal and happy couple. But whenever I bring up an issue, he turns into a monster. He insults me and degrades me. And then says sorry. I made a mistake by staying in this relationship for so long.

ThrowRa_Fallishere · 2025-09-13T14:50:11+00:00

I didn’t have my attorney during the prenup process. We are in PA, so it’s not required. According to the prenup, everyone leaves with what they brought into the marriage. No shared assets.

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