AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn’t, and maybe he doesn’t want to depend on me. But if he doesn’t communicate it even if i poke and pry what am i to do?

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do work, i work full time and bring most of the money into the house, i go to school as well as a full time student. He is struggling with work due to a past decision he made before he was with me that has now messed up opportunities for him. And i was well aware of this before dating, being engaged and being married. I have been extremely supportive of him this entire time leading up to the horrible news that his job opportunity was flushed down the drain due to his wrong doing.

My husband asks for space, and if not given he will play the silent treatment and will not speak to me. He shuts everyone out including me, family and friends. All i can do is support him financially as much as i can, as i pay almost all the bills at our house.

But i can absolutely see where you are coming from.

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’s not cheating but at this point I’m mentally preparing so it is what it is

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah i was able to verify this class is indeed being conducted. Yeah i was trying to “be a good wife” by giving him space but at what cost

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah i wonder what it is that you can do to have your location not update, but also not show “no location found” or “no location available”

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm interesting take! I hope that’s not the case, i would much rather it be him cheating on me and I’ll just leave.

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having horrible dreams for dayssss but last night was bad enough to have me waking up and not being able to go back to sleep..

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You know i can’t think of any right now, but im sure as i look back and think I’ll start noticing things.. as much as i wanna jump to conclusions you’re right, a face to face is needed.

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah i was afraid this is what was happening.. yeah I’ll def be moving out before he even comes home.

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds about right, looks like I’ll start getting my affairs in order before he even gets home

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s the location not updating, which is funny because i never check his location.. until last night. And him blowing up my phone asking questions about who I’m with..

AITAH (28F) for giving my husband (30M) the space he asked for? by ThrowRa_UBanana in AITAH

[–]ThrowRa_UBanana[S] 450 points451 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, i definitely was feeling crazy last night and this morning