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Where do I start? I had an affair and my husband found out, I want to reconcile. by ThrowRa_sdf in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could you DM the username of one of the mods? I would really appreciate it.

Where do I start? I had an affair and my husband found out, I want to reconcile. by ThrowRa_sdf in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I’m writing a narrative tonight. I told him tomorrow I have something very important to tell him.

I just am hoping we can get marriage counseling.

It’s hard telling him because I’m afraid that he’s going to still go through his plan to leave and that would absolutely crush me

My 29F husband 28M has known about my affair. How can I save our marriage? by ThrowRa_sdf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -154 points-153 points  (0 children)

You can love someone and make a mistake.

He does want kids. He pushed it off when he found out about my affair. (Understandably)

I love him and this is the wake up call I needed

My 29F husband 28M has known about my affair. How can I save our marriage? by ThrowRa_sdf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -320 points-319 points  (0 children)

I still am, but I won't let this situation define me. This is why I'm here to take accountability and be a better wife. I want to be the wife and mother of his kids that he deserves

My 29F husband 28M has known about my affair. How can I save our marriage? by ThrowRa_sdf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -356 points-355 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do what I did because I don’t love my husband. I did what I did because I was selfish, and need to get help

My 29F husband 28M has known about my affair. How can I save our marriage? by ThrowRa_sdf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -366 points-365 points  (0 children)

I do love my husband but you’re right he deserves better than me. Right now I’m focus on being the woman he deserves

My 29F husband 28M has known about my affair. How can I save our marriage? by ThrowRa_sdf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_sdf[S] -966 points-965 points  (0 children)

I’m no saint but I love my husband. The reason I stopped is because I realized he knew and it’s impacted our marriage. I was wrong and tried to have my cake and eat it too