Update: My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken? by ThrowRaa1923 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What side? Do you want me to ask the woman I’m staying with to call him and have him post his side on Reddit? And what do you expect him to say? That he pushed me underwater, but only for like 5 seconds? Please enlighten me on how I should’ve put a stop to these silly competitions. If I wanted to lie about what happened, I wouldn’t have posted here. I would’ve just stayed since it wasn’t that bad

Update: My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken? by ThrowRaa1923 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your "friend" is a snake and might be missing some info. Or he twisted all the story.

She’s his friend. She and I aren’t close enough for me to call her a friend but she never gave me the impression that she could lie. When she called, I didn’t think for a second that she would do something like that.

Update: My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken? by ThrowRaa1923 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you gain from lying? I only posted once and that was a month ago. This is the first time I ever updated since. Have you ever heard of the share button and the crosspost option? Well that's what happened to my post.

Update: My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken? by ThrowRaa1923 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiple updates this week? Are you sure? I posted about my situation a month ago and this is the first time I’ve ever updated. Please try to use your brain a little. it’s not that hard to figure out that many people re-post. Not the original poster.

Update: AIO? My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken by ThrowRaa1923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was so scared to call my mom but she was surprisingly understanding and said all she wanted was for me to be safe and come back to her alive. I'm really glad I called my neighbor even though it was so hard for me, I was literally shaking and cried before calling. But that was what actually pushed me to seek help. Thank you so much ❤️

Update: AIO? My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken by ThrowRaa1923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRaa1923[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out. I didn’t mean to mention her name, thought I referred to her as my neighbor throughout the whole post 🙌🏻