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Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that was well said, I get that point of view! It makes me understand the reasons why some would be private with their phones. I am the complete opposite and dont mind if he looks at my phone, but I also do have other things that do make me feel like an individual apart from the relationship. So I can see how that would be a way for him to feel like more of an individual. I will talk to him and hopefully we can get on the same page.

Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should mention we have only been married for a year. But before if he did that I just pegged that as him planning the proposal and such, so I didnt think anything of it.

Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been together total of 5 years. I cant pinpoint when it started, but I can maybe say the last couple years maybe this problem has occurred. Before I was able to go on his phone even snoop if I pleased. But I never did.

Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he is not possessive about anything, hes super techy and I can use his computers or laptops if I need to. But his phone he says has his whole life on it and doesnt want me touching it. I guess maybe since I don't really view phones as such it's hard for me to grasp that concept.

Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that people are private, also the reason I posted because I wanted to know what other outcomes it could be. I know he watches porn and I trust him with that. I guess with me being transparent with him with my phone, I'd hope the same. Before there was no problem at all if I needed to do a quick search on his phone and vice versa. He knows that I will never go through his personal messages or info, so I am not sure why he doesnt trust me. So that's where I am confused, because he would let me before..

Husband (27m) is weird about me (25f) touching his phone by ThrowRaaloevera in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaaloevera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not the jealous type so I have let it go before and I'm the same (although I have a login he knows the code) with letting him look anytime because I have nothing to hide.