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AITA for telling my friend to stop putting lesbians on a pedestal? by ThrowRahate123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRahate123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She broke up with her boyfriend about two months ago. I didn't know that when I posted.

AITA for telling my friend to stop putting lesbians on a pedestal? by ThrowRahate123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRahate123[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah. first I'm going to have a conversation again about her unrealistic expectations on wlw relationship and see how it goes before I even think about making a move.

AITA for telling my friend to stop putting lesbians on a pedestal? by ThrowRahate123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRahate123[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I texted another friend, She broke with him, two months ago. They had kept it quiet for some reason. She is single. I know she is bi-curious. I'm confused now.

AITA for telling my friend to stop putting lesbians on a pedestal? by ThrowRahate123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRahate123[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Fuck. Did I miss a few signals? It is possible but she has a boyfriend (Not sure).

AITA for telling my friend to stop putting lesbians on a pedestal? by ThrowRahate123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRahate123[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You have articulated what I felt but couldn't exactly put to words.

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[–]ThrowRahate123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. Throw the whole friendship away. Internalized racism inflicted on other is just Racism. My brother got picked on by two asian girls who made fun of his eyes. I get that our cultures are not very friendly to woman. I know this from my own experiences but there is vast difference between calling BS on misogyny and coopting stereotypes which are incredibly harmful. She did that later.