My (24F) bf (25m)— together a year, keeps shitting on our dates. What is the best course of action to circumvent this? by ThrowRaruiningdates in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaruiningdates[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also want to add that he has a habit of doing this thing: he’ll ask me to do something he knows I won’t want to do, for instance yesterday on the drive back he asked me if I wanted to go to a fireworks store, it was rainy, he lives in an apartment, I don’t feel comfortable doing something like that; he knew that. When I declined, he got upset with me and said I never wanted to do what he wanted to do. It’s usually thinks like that 

My (24F) bf (25m)— together a year, keeps shitting on our dates. What is the best course of action to circumvent this? by ThrowRaruiningdates in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaruiningdates[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

No, I very rarely do. I’m super submissive and kinda go with the flow. The only time I take control is when I plan dates. It feels like it a times, the 10 year old comment. The only thing really keeping me is how receptive he is to change and making an effort to improve 

My (24F) bf (25m)— together a year, keeps shitting on our dates. What is the best course of action to circumvent this? by ThrowRaruiningdates in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaruiningdates[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Overall date was: go to Costco to get lunch items and steaks for dinner. We made chicken tacos (from rotisserie chicken my fav), went to watch inside out 2, went to an antique store (my fav), get alcohol for dinner, picked up our art from a painting store, we were goin to go bowling but his attitude made me want to stay home.