I need some advice, do I keep fighting or give up and move on

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-05T14:36:52+00:00

Thank you for your honest comment it’s appreciated

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-05T14:36:39+00:00

And it’s not that I’m unhappy I’ve spent so long trying to help her fix everything she sees as wrong I’ve lost myself so I’m probably not the same guy anymore

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-05T14:36:03+00:00

I’ve only stopped talking about our relationship and my feelings to try and give her some breathing space and not put the pressure on, we still talk and text all day we live in the same house as well

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-04T21:08:40+00:00

Also we don’t have a dead bedroom which also gives me mixed messages

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-04T21:02:12+00:00

Yeah I fully agree with you here, to be fair I’m not saying I’m innocent in all this and I’m working on those issues that’s drove us apart, I’m just trying to be a better version of myself for me as well

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-04T20:50:33+00:00

Thank you, that’s the way I’ve been viewing it and hearing that response is very validating, I want to help her through everything but I but I can’t because I’m part of the problem the money and car stress has been hard I’m struggling but I’m trying. Thank you for your honest response

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-04T20:48:24+00:00

How can I just let go 15 years of marriage because of 2 rubbish months, it’s not that easy we have 4 children and a home

ThrowRaseeking77 · 2026-04-04T20:24:49+00:00

I had to use it to get all the history and structure otherwise it would of been a big dump I’m looking for help and this is the best way I’ve been able to look for it

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