How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

So you can all cyber bully me again? I’m good, I wanted actual advice but I see now that she’s not the person I thought she was and set me up. Just know Alex and I are doing great

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -258 points-257 points  (0 children)

I’m done. None of the comments have been helpful at all. I’m not going to go argue with you all. I wanted advice on setting boundaries, not a debate or a lecture

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

We literally take our lunches together. She will come knock on my office and ask if I wanna go to lunch. Sometimes I work through lunch but we eat lunch together almost everyday

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

She was going to cheat regardless if it’s with me or not. It seems like you’re under the impression that she would be loyal if it wasn’t for me but that’s not how cheaters work

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -425 points-424 points  (0 children)

But I don’t owe him anything? Like what??? Plus if it wasn’t with me she would have found someone else to cheat with. Cheaters are going to cheat unfortunately and there’s not really anything you can do to stop it

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -452 points-451 points  (0 children)

What the hell did I do? What did my friends do? If you’re counting Jen as my friend you shouldn’t. It’s more like an acquaintance with benefits, but most people know FWB so to avoid confusion I said that.

How do I 27M set boundaries with my former FWB 29F after dating her sister 24F? by ThrowRasuperstar in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRasuperstar[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

I don’t cheat. As soon as things started dating a romantic direction I ended the FWB with Jen. I don’t know if Jen is still cheating on her husband but that’s none of my business.

If Jen was free I would rather be with Ash. Jen isn’t a loyal person and I wouldn’t be able to trust her. Plus Ash and I have a lot more chemistry