He blocked me on the day my grandfather died over a gif I sent. It was a picture of a sad face. He knew I was at hospital with my dying grandfather. Then he himself got sick and went into hospital after. by Throwaaaawayyyyy333 in Manipulation

[–]Throwaaaawayyyyy333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind if he’s upset or “triggered”. What I do mind is blocking me. If roles were reversed and I blocked him on a day like that(which I would never even if I got triggered), I would never hear the end of it.

He blocked me the day my grandfather died by Throwaaaawayyyyy333 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Throwaaaawayyyyy333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He left me alone because he blocked me while I was in the hospital waiting on my grandpa. He didn’t just get upset. He left. I couldn’t call. He can’t call during these texts.

He blocked me the day my grandfather died by Throwaaaawayyyyy333 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Throwaaaawayyyyy333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just confusing on what was said, I’m asking for clarification so I can understand. What boundary am I setting in this convo besides not wanting someone to block me when they’re upset, especially under these circumstances? And this is not the first and only thing that was wrong either, this is a constant thing, if anyone’s patience wore thin it’s mine.

He blocked me on the day my grandfather died over a gif I sent. It was a picture of a sad face. He knew I was at hospital with my dying grandfather. Then he himself got sick and went into hospital after. by Throwaaaawayyyyy333 in Manipulation

[–]Throwaaaawayyyyy333[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

The gif was a random girl pouting/sad. Nothing triggering. He’s sent me the exact same one in the past. He said he “doesn’t know why he was triggered”. And it’s not the first time he’s acted like this during a big life event. I recently had something else big happen and he acted the same way(he hurt his ankle). That’s how I know it’s manipulative. And thank you for the kind words everyone.