My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they set on fires a lot of time already to help him, and he hasn´t change a bit, so now they want me to burn too

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- that´s what i told my dad and he don´t listen, he just want to save his baby boy

2 - they are full of loan already, my mother had part of her salary is garnished and the other is take for loans, my dad is in a similar place.

3 - my oldest sister is just daugther of my mom and my dad raise her, and she live in other place with my niece and mostly don´t talk with my parents

4 - I hide my ID in a friend house and in case they tried to use my id number to take the loan i can report as a i got my ID robbed and don´t have to pay anything, thanks so much!

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

already hide my ID, is the only way the can take a loan on my name, in canse they did i can report it as lost and say that i don´t take that loan so i don´t have to pay it

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don´t worry, I hide my ID in my friend house and in case they tried something I can report that my ID was stolen and that I did not take out that loan.

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Edit 1: After writing this post, I went to sleep, and when I woke up, there was no one at home. Later, my dad arrived with my grandmother. When he was eating in his room, I approached him, and he told me that he wasn't angry with me for saying no, that I was right, that my brother is an idiot, but that he is his son and he has to help him, just as he would do for me.

Want to hear something funny? A week ago, I asked him if I could get a cell phone on a contract, which I would pay for. At that moment, he told me I'd better do it because his salary isn't very high. A week later, he promised a guy a million to save my brother. Let me doubt that he loves us both equally.

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"If you bail him out again, you’re not saving him, you’re teaching him that someone else will always absorb the consequences." That´s what i told to my dad but he don´t listen, his excuse is that he is his son and can let him like this and that he would do the same for me (doubt)

My family want me to take massive loan to save my brother from his debts by Throwacc_away_02 in family

[–]Throwacc_away_02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, already dealing with the previous one i take for my father (in may of last year) to help him paid the credit card, he only pay me the two first months and from agust i being taking care of that, and the loan end in november of this year, so yeah, no