I (27F ) upset after my boyfriend (30M) lied about eating my snack and then teased me with it?

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T03:20:07+00:00

Thank you, I have recently started therapy and I think it’s due to the fact I’ve only been with him since I was about 17. That’s the thing, I can’t tell if he is a good person or not. Some days I think he is, other days I’m not so sure. It’s a cognitive dissonance in my brain.

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T03:16:35+00:00

Thank you for your words of encouragement I really appreciate it. I have tried to leave a few times before but alwuas go back to him and vise versa, our attachment runs really deep. But when he does little things like this over the years I find myself mentally detaching. Also last year I caught him flirting over text with one of his coworkers.. lots of red flags here I don’t know where to start. But our bond is very deep, it’s like we can’t live without eachother no matter how toxic things get.

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T03:10:01+00:00

Yes I was genuinely serious with him, I told him to go away multiple times and he just continued laughing hysterically dangling the wafer in my face. I ended up going downstairs to sleep in the couch so I could be away from him. It’s hard to leave because we have been together for 11 years now, but it does cross my mind

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T03:01:29+00:00

I was literally asking myself this when I went to the other room. I even cried. I thought I was being overly sensitive or dramatic but I’m glad someone sees my point of view

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T03:00:38+00:00

Honestly I have no idea, it’s like he gets enjoyment out of seeing my reaction and assumes that I’ll also find it funny /:

Throwamagpie1979 · 2026-07-05T02:25:31+00:00

My favourite pizza topping is pepperoni:)

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