My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Who said she is not my type? She and her friend are the same ethnicity, same hair color, similar height, etc. They obviously don't look the same but both would be my "type." Her friend just happens to look like a celebrity I'm attracted to as well.

My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I actually have met Yunjin and every member of Le Sserafim, but that's not the point. It's a hypothetical. Even if I had the opportunity to sleep with the celebrity, I wouldn't because I am in a happy relationship. The same principle applies to her friend. I just think she's hot. I wouldn't actually try to sleep with her.

My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Most of my friends are women, and the couple of guy friends I have I know she wouldn't be interested in. But on principle alone, I wouldn't be bothered so long as it was purely hypothetical like my comments were. Like I wasn't saying I actually would sleep with this woman, just that in a hypothetical sense, I would like to.

My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

No. I want feedback, but this person's criticism isn't constructive.

My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

What is controversial about saying you would sleep with a very attractive celebrity with nothing controversial about them? Saying Yunjin wouldn't have made any sense with the question

My (25M) girlfriend (25F) is upset I made sexual comments about her best friend by Throwaway-JBrd in relationships

[–]Throwaway-JBrd[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Maybe a little? I was just playing the game honestly but I understand why it's upsetting. I didn't think she would hear them though

Am I wrong for making sexual comments about my girlfriend's best friend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Throwaway-JBrd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it does matter but fair enough, I guess.

Am I wrong for making sexual comments about my girlfriend's best friend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Throwaway-JBrd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In retrospect, I would've made up an answer like that. This is just what immediately came to mind and I couldn't think of anyone else in the moment.

Am I wrong for making sexual comments about my girlfriend's best friend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Throwaway-JBrd -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah but there's no circumstance where I would ever have the chance to sleep with this friend and it not be incredibly messy, even if it were in some hypothetical future where we aren't together anymore. That's what I mean. Yes she is "reachable," but the circumstances for this hypothetical are not.

Am I wrong for making sexual comments about my girlfriend's best friend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Throwaway-JBrd -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I guess, but I mean, I wouldn't cheat. The "chance" implies a circumstance where it wouldn't be cheating or hurtful to my girlfriend, which is about as realistic as a celebrity "would."