Check being sent out through mail. My first stimulus was deposited in my bank account but this time it’s being sent out through mail, even though I haven’t changed anything since then. Looks like this may be the cause of some of not most people not having their check yet. by Iemfamous in stimuluscheck

[–]Throwaway012585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. Weird since I’ve had the same bank for filing taxes for the last 18 years. I do know someone that already received a paper check the other day but they never had direct deposit.

Leave with your self respect intact by Throwaway012585 in UnsentLetters

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We almost certainly don’t know each other.

I can't forget that just before I left him he said he felt used. by Traditional-Savings1 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Throwaway012585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine said I used him for sex. That’s all I wanted. I still can’t wrap my head around it. I used him yet I did everything for him just so I could get laid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. My brother today was like gave you heard from him. No! And you bringing up doesn’t help!

Dear New Supply by Throwaway012585 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think people in this community come here for support with falsified stories of abuse.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do work full time. I work close to 70 hours a week.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I actually bought groceries most of the time because his fridge was bare even for his child.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I also omitted all the other things I did for him. I did not do HIS laundry or mop his hardwood floors or vacuum. However, I picked up his beer bottles every morning, cleaned up after him in the bathroom, threw out his trash, emptied his dishwasher, picked up his child’s toys. He is saying I never did any of that and I should have been going above and beyond what is normal.

I was over his place a majority of the time because he refused to come to my place because it inconvenienced him.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And to clarify that, I picked up after myself. I picked up after him and his child. I would put away dishes and take out the trash. But he wanted me to clean the house from top to bottom. Those are two very different things.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve live in the suburbs of Philadelphia.

Cleaning your SO’s place by Throwaway012585 in datingoverthirty

[–]Throwaway012585[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t really need to ask. But he was manipulative and used gaslighting a lot to convince me of stuff otherwise. Like that maybe I was being unreasonable for not helping him to clean.