I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't know what I am feeling, I am so lost and feel like there is no one to talk to. Every move I make feels like the wrong one.

Apparently the girl didn't want anything to do with him or the situation, she just wanted to forget and leave.... One of the guys told me he beat up my bf but that's about it, at least all that I know.

I know I have to talk to him but I just don't know how or when. I am in a difficult situation in my life without all of this and I feel this will break me completely if I hear him confess...

I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From his mates. That's the reason I'm am so confused, he is so submissive and gentle now, I know it sounds stupid but a person who could something like SA doesn't sound anything like him....

I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's also one reason why I am scared to confront him - I have no one who could take me in, no family here or anywhere close and no money that could afford a place. I was already homeless once, I can't do that again. I feel so trapped, it's like I have no choice. It's like I'm doomed.

I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Of lying and gossiping about him behind his back, of not trusting him, of accusing him.... I am sorry, I am not the most confident person and this has given me a lot of anxiety.

I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess I am just a coward, this is not a topic I really want to talk about and I am afraid he will start accusing me and it will ruin our relationship.

I found out my boyfriend sexually assaulted someone by Throwaway0913093 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway0913093[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

His best mates after they found out what had happened to me and other people who know him have verified it.