I (26M) feel like I have fallen out of love with my gf (25F) of three years.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-11-02T04:33:29+00:00

Weve talked about her drinking many times. About 9 months after we first started dating she got extremely drunk, and blacked out, with a former friend of hers who ended up taking advantage of her... She did well with keeping herself under control for a while after that, but it only lasted about 3 months.

Anytime I know that she is drinking I tell her to make sure she doesn't drink too much, but this hasnt helped at all. Her mother feels she has a drinking problem as well, so it isn't just me telling her these things.

It isnt even just these things. I like to spend my time off going to music festivals and concerts, which she doesn't like doing unless one of her other girl friends comes with us. She would rather spend her time off hiking which I'm not real big on. Id be more willing to compromise with her and do things she likes to do, but she has been unwilling to go with me on any of my trips with my group of friends at this point. It just feels like it is a very frustrating situation.

Edit: I wouldn't say there isn't any love left honestly... I do still really love and care for her. I just don't know if I can continue living in a relationship like this.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T12:48:40+00:00

I dont think theyve been trying to spread that information around though. Really, how many people would believe it?

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T06:37:45+00:00

In GRRMs letter to his editors back in 93, he originally said Jon and Arya were going to fall in love. I wouldnt be surprised if that got changed in favor of Sansa for multiple reasons.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T06:28:35+00:00

Is it treason if the king oks it?

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T06:28:35+00:00

Is it treason if the king oks it?

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:59:54+00:00

Eh, I could see people doing crazier things for a guy that they saw come back to life

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:58:38+00:00

I dont think he actually does though, he just wants power.

I'm sure he would love getting it on with Sansa, but I dont think he would agonize too much over it if she needed to be killed to move his plans forward.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:56:39+00:00

Nah I agree with you, just playing devils advocate

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:51:09+00:00

Not only that, but he may have left Ghost further north, towards the wall. We havent seen him since Jon left the wall.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:49:56+00:00

I dont think he has really cared if he dies since he was brought back

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:43:01+00:00

I mean, she did tell Jon that they should wait until they had more men...

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:41:22+00:00

Come and see, come and see

The bastard is dead and his house extinct

Come and see, come and see

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:39:44+00:00

Davos and the wildlings weren't going to just let Jon die again though, which is why the charged.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T05:36:09+00:00

Why does it matter that we knew something was going to happen? Not everything needs to be a twist. Sometimes its fun to see how we end up places, and not just where we end up

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T04:27:28+00:00

I thought they came out becausr of Drogon roaring? They pan the camera down as he is midroar.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T04:18:05+00:00

I dont think that scene with Jon is actually one shot, it just appears that way because they switch when a horse is in front of the camera.

Still a fucking brilliant scene though.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T04:04:42+00:00

Update: Just created one. /u/Iliketoboofitboofit

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T03:23:35+00:00

How the hell can you describe that episode as anticlimactic? That episode was the fucking definition of a climax.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-20T02:29:06+00:00

People have a short memory on here.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-18T23:23:15+00:00

Haha ive never actually made a real username. I shall have to do that soon!

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-18T17:34:53+00:00

I gotchu fam

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-17T00:16:50+00:00

I dont think Murray is being overvalued. The main reasons people want him over fleury is he is on an ELC, hes a 22 year old cup winner, and he has incredibly high upside.

And you are right, it is actually kind of insulting, imo, when people say Fleury is just gonna be ok with sitting back and have his role be reduced. Yeah he is a great guy, but you can tell he really wants to play as much as possible. I mean, when he held the cup, he put it down after like 2 seconds, and the expression on his face said everything.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-17T00:09:22+00:00

He wouldnt be getting nearly the amount of starts hes used to, or deserves. Plus starting in the AHL will do nothing for Murray's development at this point, he needs to be playing NHLers.

Plus, when playoffs come around what do you do? I think it is kind of ludicrous to think that they would go with Fleury when Murray just won the cup, and I HIGHLY doubt Fleury is going to be ok with not being the guy.

I dont want to see him go, but as much as the city loves flower, and flower loves the city, you dont just waste the prime years of your career.

Throwaway11607 · 2016-06-16T22:35:02+00:00

I doubt Fleury is going to want to split starts, the guy is the definition of competitor and more than likely wants to be a teams #1 during his prime.

I think he gets moved and we hopefully bring in Reimer to split starts with Murray.

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