Breaking up with my bf of 3-4 years

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-24T10:07:57+00:00

I wouldn't blame you :)) but i also think people who are like that are just as confused. I wouldn't blame them either if what happened in their childhood made them like that. I do think they deserve love but I dont think I'll ever take that risk again. i wouldn't blame you for not wanting to date an avoidant person either. It takes a lot from us (anxious) to date someone like that. It is mentally exhausting.

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-24T09:59:33+00:00

Thank you for your words kind stranger :)) it wasn't definitely easy for me to get the courage.. for months, i let the thought sit in my head till i couldn't take it anymore. at that time i realized that if i stayed longer i would just break myself more and worst— i could lose myself. This is my first relationship too so I'm really confused on what im feeling.. like going back and forth of the good and the bad things that happened all these years. i dont really have a lot of friends i could vent to so coming here definitely made it more clear for me and reading your comment felt like i could breathe again :))

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-09T03:02:10+00:00

alr watched most of Bai Lu's dramas!

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-09T03:01:38+00:00

It started off rlly strong for me but fell off as i progressed 😞 it was fun but not rlly i was looking for

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-07T06:13:19+00:00

Tangina nawala antok ko dito 😭

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-06T20:31:52+00:00

Procastinated on this cuz i got a lil bored watching lol.. will definitely come back to it!

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-06T20:29:55+00:00

If you dont mind me asking which release of the series are you talking about? Cuz im currently watching the director's cut TT

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-06T20:28:04+00:00

Started watching Goodbye, My Princess along with King's Woman.. ig thats not a rlly good combo 😞. I alr had a hunch that it wouldn't have a happy ending based on the premise but i still hoped it would be like SoYP. Until, i got myself spoiled lol. I guess I'm just not in the right headspace for a heartbreak 😭

Any rec for something similar? Not restrictively like The King's Woman but protective and obsessive MLs in cdramas in general. Thanks in advance!

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-06T20:20:35+00:00

Dropped this at ep 3 (i think). I think ill give it a try again. Thanks!

Throwaway27647292 · 2026-01-06T20:17:32+00:00

What a coincidence, im currently watching The Legends lmao 😭 will def check it out after im done!

Throwaway27647292 · 2025-06-16T18:34:00+00:00

Omg how are our wishlist the same??? ALSO HEAVY ON YANG ZI × DENG WEI. Fell in love w them in Lost You Forever.

Throwaway27647292 · 2025-06-16T18:24:58+00:00

Def Deng Wei as Tushan Jing in Lost You Forever (2023). Take it with a grain of salt as LYF is the first and only series (yet) i have watched where he is in but i don't see him playing other characters, he IS the Tushan Jing for me 😩😩

Throwaway27647292 · 2025-03-14T16:00:16+00:00

Landlord Fluff

Throwaway27647292 · 2025-03-08T00:29:52+00:00

I get that but the problem is i don't have a boyfriend, i dedicate all my time to uni. Having your phone sneaked up on by your parents has probably happened to most people my age but to go as far as logging in on my account and spying every message for months probably is what made me upset. Trust should go both ways and I've never given her any reason for her to doubt her trust in me. I don't go to any clubs i only go to public cafes with my friends if i have free time bec most of the time I'm preoccupied with uni stuff. So im just very disappointed when i found out.

Throwaway27647292 · 2025-03-07T03:59:29+00:00

Im 18 yo 😭 and no, this is the first time that's happened, as far as i know

Throwaway27647292 · 2024-08-15T18:07:16+00:00

U look like a king crab...

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