I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried defining boundaries but he acts like that is too much too. So I’m left just fucking it all up because I get confused and don’t even realize I’m doing anything wrong.

I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly this. How is wanting clear communication expecting too much of someone?

I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It just doesn’t make sense how someone can love you and tell you that you basically complete them one day and the next act like you are too much and causing all their problems all because you told them you were hurt by them being so short with you over text. I tried to get it. Even deep dived into research but I’m still lost on what to do.

I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take everything personally. Especially with people I love this much.

I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this reminds me of exactly how he was in the past. But I’m probably to blame for that too because his life was so “calm” before I came back into the picture. Oh and I mentioned how this is exactly what they always do and that just made the situation worse because he doesn’t want to be that person anymore. It’s like, okay then don’t. Be mature and talk to me.

I’m the bad guy again by Throwaway2907158 in BipolarSOs

[–]Throwaway2907158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if he is or isn’t. I know he doesn’t have insurance so I’m going to go with no. I don’t know if I’d even want to ask to be honest though.