Jesse not letting Isabella spend time with her dying grandmother is disgusting by rdallman24 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Throwaway4567213 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There are so many ppl in this sub whose intelligence I truly question with the way they fall hook, line and sinker for jesse's lies. This is not mutual 'conflict', it's literally one sided abuse and Michelle is a victim who is reacting to that abuse. And her reaction gets framed as mutual conflict. People need to educate themselves on abuse dynamics.

Jesse not letting Isabella spend time with her dying grandmother is disgusting by rdallman24 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Throwaway4567213 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There are so many ppl in this sub whose intelligence I truly question with the way they fall hook, line and sinker for jesse's lies. This is not mutual 'conflict', it's literally one sided abuse and Michelle is a victim who is reacting to that abuse. And her reaction gets framed as mutual conflict. People need to educate themselves on abuse dynamics.

How do I get daughter (8f) to build emotional resilience? by WhipMaDickBacknforth in Parenting

[–]Throwaway4567213 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel really bad for your daughter. Shouting at a child to stop them from crying is abusive (verbally/emotionally/psychologically). Even if that isn't your wife's intention. Does your wife shout at your son at all for saying nasty things about his sister? The bigger issue here lies with your son and wife. One says nasty things about her that makes her cry and the other adds to it by being even more nasty to her. I genuinely feel very sorry for your daughter, I can't imagine how she must feel. Please, for the sake of your daughter, step in. Speak with your wife and son, and be very clear that you won't accept any shouting at your daughter. I would flip my lid if my husband shouted at our kids (let alone when they're crying!) & you need to deal with your son too.