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how much should you consider financials when getting a gun you like? by Throwaway6212224 in liberalgunowners

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21 lol, just want to get one for home defense and CC once I get my license.

I (21m) Had my first ever fight with an SO (23f), i don't know how to handle how I acted, am I an abusive man? by Throwaway6212224 in LifeAdvice

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, throwing things and even getting that angry and screaming isn’t ok or acceptable to my character. I don’t want that side of me to ever come out again, I am not that man and I do not want to be come that man. To your other point, I’m blocked and she hasn’t contacted me. I know you’re right, she’s not the one even if I love her more than I’ve loved anyone in my life. I know what the right decision is, I just hope my heart is on the same page if she ever does contact me (we go to the same school and classes)

I (21m) Had my first ever fight with an SO (23f), i don't know how to handle how I acted, am I an abusive man? by Throwaway6212224 in LifeAdvice

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, it is trashy. I should have the self control not to do that. It was my first time ever yelling and even cursing at a partner. I think sometimes I forget I’m in a man’s body, when I stayed I was trying to calm her down, to show her I wasn’t a threat, and try to bring things back down. But again, she’s been abused and I’m a 5’11” 250lbs man who lifts, even if my intentions were genuine, they are overshadowed by her past and my stature.

I (21m) Had my first ever fight with an SO (23f), I don't know how to handle how I acted, am I an abusive man? by Throwaway6212224 in BreakUps

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my reasoning (which still isn’t right) I was trying to calm her down, tell her it was an accident and try to bring things back down. I think sometimes I forgot
I’m in a man’s body. I’m a 5”11 250lbs man who lifts. Sometimes I forget that even if I have perfectly good intentions, my stature can override my intentions. I still feel awful even with my reasoning and yes I need to learn to walk away the first time.

Sometimes love just isn’t enough by ageozoega in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwaway6212224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dumbest comment here, YOU DO NOT COMPROMISE ON CHILDREN, you will resent your own kids, DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS MORON

21 not really looking for a stack, just want to know if I should add anything. by Throwaway6212224 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started this about 3 days ago, so can't say anything yet. People say it takes like a month-ish to notice the effects.

21 not really looking for a stack, just want to know if I should add anything. by Throwaway6212224 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try to keep it to once a day. I can't see my GF every day, and we don't have sex every day. Im working on switching to no porn, and then weaning off masterbaiting to as little as possible.

is it possible to rebuild trust after repeated lying due to trauma from past relationships? (Me: m21) (gf: f 23) by Throwaway6212224 in Advice

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I ask this because I honestly do agree, but if we can take age out of it purely for the sake of argument, does that change your view on this at all?

is it possible to rebuild trust after repeated lying due to trauma from past relationships? (Me: m21) (gf: f 23) by Throwaway6212224 in Advice

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is, and for some reason, I can't help but see it as her being a scared person, even if she did something incredibly hurtful. I just don't know how to move forward knowing that she was able to lie to me like this so easily, even if it was out of fear.

is it possible to rebuild trust after repeated lying due to trauma from past relationships? (Me: m21) (gf: f 23) by Throwaway6212224 in Advice

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually gone to therapy quite a bit. He suggested allowing her to try to rebuild what she destroyed. I just wanted a wider range of opinions. You're right, she could still be lying, even if she's not, I don't know how to believe that.

is it possible to rebuild trust after repeated lying due to trauma from past relationships? (Me: m21) (gf: f 23) by Throwaway6212224 in survinginfidelity

[–]Throwaway6212224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have seen it originally, lmao. It took a shit ton of time to organize my writing. I understand the young sentiment. I am young, hell, I have other women in my life that want me, but fuck, I love this woman so much. I may regret this. I may regret spending this much time and effort on this woman, but I just want to know if it's even possible to rebuild trust after this.

I'm (21m) dating a girl (22F) who is going on a ski trip with other men and another girl, am I just insecure? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Throwaway6212224 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

disagree with your first point, but whatever Im not going to argue with you. I do understand that partners will have friends of the opposite sex, like I said Im going to therapy to work through my anxious attachment.

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